Friday, February 05, 2010

St Agatha Virgin and Martyr

Our age doesn't much understand the veneration the Catholic Church has for a fourth century Virgin and Martyr. Both Virginity and Martyrdom seem alien virtues in an age that is conditioned to do everything possible to remain alive as long as possible and treats sex like just another recreational activity. Virginity and Martyrdom? What does that mean?

The virtue of virginity is even misunderstood by Christians who otherwise value celibacy and 'family values.' People can't help but misconstrue the virtue and see it as somehow anti-marriage and anti-sex. Certainly there have been some Catholic writers who have treated sexual relations as innately filthy, but this is Christianity infected with Manichaeanism--that Eastern idea that the physical realm is somehow less worthy than the spiritual. So what is the virture of virginity?

There seem to me to be two aspects to it: first of all we value the virgins not because they have never had sexual intercourse. That would simply be a negative definition--like defining someone from Des Moines as 'a person who has never been to Paris, France.' No, there must be a positive virtue and it is that the virgin is one who has retained the essence of innocence and childhood. The gospel says that unless we become like a little child we cannot enter the kingdom, and the virgin is one who has retained a sense of beautiful, child-like innocence. Secondly, the virgin is one not one who has simply never had sexual intercourse. Lack of this action does not mean a person is truly a virgin. A person could be a physical virgin but be anything but virginal in his or her thoughts and words and activities.

The second aspect which confirms a true virgin in the spiritual sense is that this person who has remained a little child is also consecrated totally to God. This is the second aspect of virginity that all of us can learn from. We see the virgin martyrs like St Agatha and they become icons of what each of us must be, for each one of us, no matter how soiled and stained by our sins must again become like a little child. We must once more be washed in the blood of the Lamb and be restored to our baptismal perfection through the sacraments. We must also, like the virgin martyrs be totally and utterly dedicated to God. They show us this in their actual lives. We hope to attain it by God's grace.

Agatha is also a martyr in an age that cannot understand martyrdom. It is strange that we cannot, for we have just emerged from the bloodiest century the world has seen, a century when more innocent souls of all sorts endured torture and deprivation and a kind of martyrdom in the death camps, the pogroms, the holocausts and genocides. It is Christianity which begins to make sense of these deaths and says, "Here are souls who are baptized finally into the complete identification with Christ. They have given their blood for the blood of the Lamb"

So Agatha and the other martyrs show us two truths in their martyrdom. First, that there are some precious deep down realities that are the foundation of everything else, and we cannot compromise them without compromising everything else. Our faith is our heart. Take out our heart and we cease to live. The martyrs tell us that these deep down realities are so precious and so eternal that we would rather die than lose them. If this is so, then the martyrs also show us that to live in that reality is to live a kind of martyrdom day by day anyway. We are there to live only for that deep down reality which is the faith, and living that way is a way of daily, joyful sacrifice.

St Agatha, Virgin and Martyr, pray for us.

7 comments:

Monica Edith said...

In my first reading of this article, I was taken aback at this sentence in your first paragraph --
"Both Virginity and Martyrdom seem alien virtues in an age that is conditioned to do everything possible to remain alive as long as possible..."
I knew you were going somewhere new for me, with that unusual statement, but I had no idea where. Of course, you fully explained, and presented a new level of understanding of the faith, beyond my little convert perceptions. Wish I could "paste this on my heart."

Wine in the Water said...

Mostly off topic and completely frivolous, but St. Agatha is a patroness against fire. So the fact that St. Agatha's in Philadelphia caught fire 3 times, the third time necessitating its closure, was always a source or wry irony for me. ;)

a consecrated virgin said...

Many thanks for this post! :)

Although obviously I’m not impartial when I say this, I think that a renewed appreciation for the virtue of virginity (particularly life-long, consecrated virginity) is something that could greatly benefit the Church today--although it is often misunderstood, even in many “conservative” Catholic circles. And so I’m always encouraged by such thoughtful reflections on the value of virginity and the lives of the Church’s virgin-martyr saints.

George Weis said...

That was very well put! Who could disagree with it? Ah! But you know well that there are those who would :)

I am amazed at the person above me. That is definitely unusual to hear of today. May God grant you peace and the fullness of His blessings as you seek to serve Him through your vocation.

-g-

Just another mad Catholic said...

I apreciate what Father L is trying to say but I am alone in thinking that the Calander of Saints focuses too much on virgins/matyrs/clergy/consecrated ? there are VERY few (Bl Louis and Zellie Matin are the only ones who come to mind) people on the Calander who married, had kids and did not enter the relgious life upon the death of their spouse.

Its kinda like saying look at these wonderful people all you married folks and kick yourself you're life will never be as holy as theirs, kick yourself that you had the audacity to engage in sexual relations within marriage, kick yourself that you want have kids.

I find this attitude extremely prevelent amongst fellow tradies right before they get thier mantillas in twist over Opus Dei which actually offers some hope to your average Catholic layperson that you to can live a Holy Catholic life even if you are married with children or aspire to that state.

Telemachus said...

Hey, Mad Catholic!

I partially agree with your observation. There ARE many who have been canonized by the Church who lived "normal" lives of taking care of their families, running businesses, etc., all the while maintaining superior virtue. I wish I could point to them right now, but listen to things like the SaintCast or Catholic Answers, and you start hearing about them.

Yet, I think the reason for the Church's prioritizing of virgins, martyrs, etc. is due to the unusual character of these folks. They really stand out in terms of their other-worldly behavior, and I think the Church is (rightly) trying to encourage us towards other-worldliness since most of our day-to-day experiences do not.

St. Agatha and other consecrated virgins make a guy like me, for instance, want to be a more chaste man. This is not to say that I don't desire marriage and children and such, but simply that the examples of the celibate religious continue to give positive examples to me. Whereas "The World" tells me that I should just give into my urges ("responsibly", of course, LOL), the celibate show me that, amazingly, I'm not just an animal who must give himself over to his passions.

Furthermore, we live in such a jaded and cynical world, that the examples of the lives and deaths of martyrs shows me that there are things worth dying for, and that "holding on for dear life" is not always the pinnacle of the human destiny. Rather, the ability to willingly lay down one's life for the lives of others, or for the defense of the Church, must be cultivated in order that we not fearfully cling to this world, forgetting what awaits in the next.

God Bless!

Just another mad Catholic said...

telmachus

I'm not against the Church pointing out the virtues of Virgins/Matyrs I just wish that more space on the calander was given to us 'ordinary' folks, as I said before it sometimes feels as if the calander is telling you to that you're wicked and evil for being married/aspiring to that state in life, I also think that this mentality lead to the extreme crazyness of the last 40yrs as people figure that they couldn't be holy within marriage and simply 'gave up' .

I think that now more than ever those of us called to the married life need the example of Saints whose struggles were our struggles e.g. educating our children in the faith a situation where the example of a teenage matyr isn't really applicable and where that of lets say Bl Louis and Zelle Matin would be.